Understand Conflict & Why We Suffer
I am a recovering neurotic. I know this machinery from the inside because I have lived it, studied it, recorded it, analyzed it, and spent years learning how to recognize the unconscious patterns that once ran my life.
My work comes from nearly twenty years of studying and preserving a forgotten psychoanalytic method that was passed down to me by Edmund Bergler and Dr. Bernard Glazman. It is rooted in neurosis, psychic masochism, self-sabotage, projection, avoidance, and the unconscious need to suffer.
I am also an investigative documentary filmmaker, which means I have spent my career questioning the official story, finding what was left out, and exposing the hidden mechanics behind conflict, deception, and human behavior. I bring that same instinct into my work with clients. I listen for the clues, the contradictions, the missing beats, and the parts of the story that do not quite hold up.
When we work together, I am not just helping you get through your latest conflict. I am teaching you how to recognize the playbook behind it. Most people come in focused on the outside problem: the argument, the anxiety, the betrayal, the resentment, the person they cannot let go of, or the thing that keeps them up at night. I help them see how their unconscious may be using that problem as an alibi for suffering.
We investigate the story you tell yourself, the role you may be leaving out, the reactions you keep repeating, and what was happening inside your mind right before everything went sideways. The goal is not to cure you. The goal is to help you recognize the mechanism, pause before it takes over completely, and navigate your life with more responsibility, restraint, and clarity.